Re: the next wedge issue

[andie nachgeborenen <andie_nachgeborenen@xxxxxxxxx>]

> >
> > More interesting to me is the obsessive labeling.
> Why does it matter
> > that one is homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual,
> etc. What is any of this
> > about?
>
> Don't you know ? Firstly, God forbids human pleasure
> not in accordance with
> his Law, and some people see themselves as
> authorities about that for all of
> us.

But therea re lot of people who have a visceral
disgust about sexual behavior different from theirs
that is independent of any religiosu beliefs.

Secondly, you do need to know, in order to
> connect with the people you
> want or need.
>

Well, you wouldn't need to have the label and the
identity. Say you were interested, at a  particular
point, in a man, being one yourself. So you made a
pass. If he wasn't interested, what more would it add
to, Sorry, fella, you aren't my type, or, gee Im
flattered, but I'm already in a
relationship/married/not looking just now, to say, I
am not gay? You could still look or advertise in the
Men Seeking Men personals, etc. You just wouldn't have
the label.


> J.


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